How To Get Married Without The State
Create a meaningful, legally-informed marriage covenant without government involvement. Our comprehensive course provides everything you need to establish a private union that honors your values while protecting your future.
Why Choose Private Marriage?
Many couples seek alternatives to state marriage for various reasons - religious freedom, philosophical beliefs, or simply desiring more control over their commitment terms.
A private marriage covenant allows you to:
  • Design a union based on your personal values
  • Create legally sound agreements without state involvement
  • Maintain privacy in your relationship commitments
  • Establish clear terms for property, responsibilities, and more
What You'll Learn
1
Legal Foundations
Understand the legal principles that make private marriage covenants binding and enforceable without state marriage licenses
2
Document Creation
Learn to craft comprehensive agreements that address property, responsibilities, dispute resolution, and more
3
Ceremony Design
Create a meaningful ceremony that honors your commitment while establishing witnesses to your covenant
4
Practical Implementation
Navigate practical matters like banking, insurance, medical decisions, and other areas typically associated with state marriage
Course Investment Options
We designed this program to meet you where you are, offering four powerful tiers that scale from essential foundations to the complete private marriage toolkit. Each tier includes everything in the level before it, so you can grow at your own pace.
Compare Package Features:
Select the package that best fits your needs and commitment level. All packages include lifetime access to materials.
Tier 1 – Essentials
$97
For those who want to start simple and strong. Perfect for couples stepping into private marriage with clarity and purpose.
What's Included:
  • Full Access to Digital Course
  • Printable PDF Workbook
Tier 2 – Templates & Tools
$297
Build on the basics with our full Template Library. This tier gives you everything needed for a well-documented, legally sound private union.
Everything in Tier 1, Plus:
  • Ceremony Outline
  • Vows Templates
  • Marriage Covenant Agreements
  • Schedule of Assets
  • Cohabitation Agreement
  • Notarial Acknowledgement & Witness Signature
  • Marriage License Templates
Tier 3 – Premium Workbook + Extras
$697
Take your union to the next level with professionally designed materials. This tier adds beauty, order, and ease to the process while maintaining legal clarity.
Everything in Tiers 1 & 2, Plus:
  • Professionally Bound Workbook
  • Digital Archive Instructions
  • Amendment Procedures
  • Estate Planning Considerations
Tier 4 – Complete Package
$997+
Our most comprehensive package includes everything above plus coaching and guidance, ensuring you don't just receive documents—you master the process.
Everything in Tiers 1-3, Plus:
  • 1:1 Coaching Sessions
  • Document Review Service
  • Guided Implementation Walkthrough
  • Lifetime Access to Updates
  • Priority Support
  • Advanced Legal Strategies Session
The Legal Framework
Contract Law
Private marriage covenants rely on established contract law principles that have been upheld in courts across America
Property Rights
Clear documentation of assets, liabilities, and management expectations creates legally enforceable property agreements
Witness Testimony
Strategic use of witnesses and notarization strengthens the validity and enforceability of your private marriage
While not a state marriage license, a properly executed private marriage covenant can provide many similar protections through careful application of existing legal principles.
Practical Applications
Your private marriage covenant isn't just a beautiful ceremony—it's a practical tool for navigating real-world situations.
Medical Decisions
Establish medical power of attorney and hospital visitation rights without relying on state marriage
Shared Property
Create clear agreements for property ownership, management, and division should the covenant end
Financial Systems
Navigate banking, insurance, and financial institutions effectively as a privately married couple
Family Planning
Address children, guardianship, and family structures with legally sound private agreements
What Our Students Say
"We wanted a marriage that reflected our spiritual values without government involvement. This course gave us the exact framework we needed. The templates saved us thousands in legal fees!"
— Michael & Sarah, Texas
"As a lawyer myself, I was impressed with the legal soundness of these materials. My husband and I used the Tier 3 package to create a beautiful covenant that protects both of us."
— Jennifer, Colorado
"The coaching in Tier 4 was invaluable. Having someone walk us through each document and answer our specific questions made all the difference in our confidence."
— David & Thomas, Washington
Frequently Asked Questions
Is a private marriage legally binding?
A properly executed private marriage covenant creates a legally binding contract between parties. While different from a state marriage license, it utilizes established contract law to create enforceable agreements. Our course explains exactly how to maximize legal protection.
Will this work in my state?
The principles taught apply nationwide because they're based on contract law, which is recognized in all states. However, specific applications may vary by jurisdiction. The higher tier packages include state-specific considerations and adaptations.
Can I get legal benefits like tax advantages?
Some benefits are tied specifically to state-recognized marriage and cannot be replicated (like filing joint federal taxes). However, many practical and legal protections can be established through private agreements. We detail exactly what you can and cannot replicate.
Have more questions? Email us at support@privatemarriage.com
Your Course Creator
Minster MarVo EL
With 15 years of experience in contract law and alternative legal structures, I've helped over 500 couples establish private marriages that honor their values while providing practical legal protection.
After witnessing how many couples desired alternatives to state marriage, I developed this comprehensive system that combines legal soundness with meaningful ceremony and covenant-making.
My approach has been featured in legal journals and alternative lifestyle publications across America.
Ready to Create Your Private Marriage?
Choose your investment tier and begin your journey today
1
Tier 1
Essentials
$97
2
Tier 2
Templates & Tools
$297
3
Tier 3
Premium Workbook
$697
4
Tier 4
Complete Package
$997+
All packages include lifetime access and a 30-day satisfaction guarantee